Friday, March 28, 2008

stay safe, everyone!

hi everyone,

i received this as a forward from my sister... just wanted to pass along the knowledge and hope it will help to keep you all safe! i don't know from whom this actually originated, but i think it is important enough for all of us to appreciate that she took the time to share her experience.

<3
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Please take 3 minutes and read this...then pass it on.... When I think about it, I probably would have believed him and opened the door.....

RAPIST TRICK
Know what money you are carrying. You will see why as you read. Be sure every woman is aware of this M. O. Share it with your wife and daughters. This was the first I have e heard of a scheme like this and I wanted to pass it along. Be safe!
Criminals are coming up with craftier, less threatening methods of attack, so we have to be extra cautious. Read on...

I live in Alexandria, VA
, but I often work in Lafayette, LA, staying with friends when I'm there. As you know from America's Most Wanted TV program, as well as the news media, there is a serial killer in the Lafayette area. I just want to let you know about an "incident" that happened to me a few weeks ago, and could have been deadly.

At first I didn't go to the police or anyone with it because I didn't realize how serious this encounter was. But since I work in a jail and I told a few people about it, it wasn't long before I was paraded into Internal Affairs to tell them my story. It was approximately 5:15 a.m. in Opelousas, LA. I had stayed with a friend there and was on my way to work. I stopped at the Exxon/Blimpie Pie station to get gas. I got $10 gas and a Diet Coke. I took into the store two $5 bills and one $1 bill (just enough to get my stuff).

As I pulled away from the store, a man approached my truck from the back side of the store (an unlit are a). He was an "approachable-looking" man (clean cut, clean-shaven, dressed well, etc). He walked up to my window and knocked. Since I'm very paranoid and "always looking for the rapist or killer," I didn't open the window.

I asked what he wanted. He raised a $5 bill to my window and said, "You dropped this. " Since I knew I had gone into the store with a certain amount of money, I knew I didn't drop it. When I told him it wasn't mine, he began hitting the window and door, screaming at me to open my door, and insisting that I had dropped the money! At that point, I just drove away as fast as I could.

After talking to the Internal Affairs Department and describing the man I saw, and the way he escalated from calm and polite to angry and volatile...it was determined that I could have possibly encountered the serial killer myself. Up to this point, it had been unclear as to how he had gained access to his victims, since there has been no evidence of forced entry into victim 's homes, cars, etc. And the fact that he has been attacking in the daytime, when women are less likely to have their guard up, means he is pretty BOLD.

So think about it...what gesture is nicer than returning money to someone that dropped it???? How many times would you have opened your window (or door) to get your money and say thank you.... because if the person is kind enough to return something to you, then he can't really be a threat....can he????


Please be cautious! This might not have been the serial killer... but anyone that gets that angry over someone not accepting money from them can't have honorable intentions. The most important
thing to note is that his reaction was NOT WHAT I EXPECTED! A total surprise! But what might have happened if I had opened my door? I shudder to think!


Forward this to everyone you know...maybe they can be as fortunate as I was!


P. S. Ladies, really DO forward this to EVERYONE you know even if this man wasn't a serial killer, he looked nice, he seemed polite, he was apparently doing an act of kindness, but HE WAS
NOT A NICE PERSON!!!

Men, send it to all the women in your life. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. Make it a good one! Please forward to anyone you think might benefit from this story.
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for 中文翻譯by cloud, 請看 "comments" =)

20 comments:

Cloud said...

的確要隨時注意自己的安全,提高警覺,防人之心不可無

cloud

Anonymous said...

真的要好好保護自己
要相信自己的直覺
-即使對方看起來很正派-
再怎麼小心都不為過

這兩本書我覺得挺不錯的
求生之書
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010067448
預知暴力
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010135641

Anonymous said...

我是阿民

真的要好好保護自己
要相信自己的直覺
-即使對方看起來很正派-
再怎麼小心都不為過

這兩本書我覺得挺不錯的
求生之書
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010067448
預知暴力
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010135641

Anonymous said...

真的要好好保護自己
要相信自己的直覺
-即使對方看起來很正派-
再怎麼小心都不為過

這兩本書我覺得挺不錯的
求生之書
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010067448
預知暴力
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010135641

Unknown said...

eVonne要注意身體唷

Unknown said...

eVonne要注意身體唷

Anonymous said...

的确是要有防范意识啦...


PS:eVonne要加油喔!!!

Cloud said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
黃政憲 said...

慧欣加油

Anonymous said...

最近在看詐騙的東西
(其實這篇文章也有關詐騙:
騙得你的信任才方便傷害你)
真的是防人之心不可無
不能'太'相信人的

Brad said...

感謝您能給我們這個blog
且可以支援rss
以後不會漏看妳發的文了

eVilDracula said...

Food for thought! But I think this is not only for staying safe, but for how to know about a person as well.

Cloud said...

以下是我的翻譯
有地方翻的很怪或是有錯誤
就加減參考一下吧

大家好
我收到我妹妹寄給我的一封轉寄信...只是想要傳達這個消息,希望可以幫助你們都可以遠離危險!我不清楚這封信的原始出處是誰,但我想這對我們都很重要,感謝她花了時間分享她的經驗!
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請花三分鐘讀這分文章…然後轉寄出去…當我回想起來,我可能真的會相信他而打開車門…

強暴者的手段
要知道你身上帶了多少錢,當你讀完你就知道為什麼,確定讓每個女性都知道這M.O.(不會翻),讓你們的妻子和女兒知道這件事,這是第一次我聽到這樣的計謀,我想讓它傳出去,遠離危險!

罪犯會想出詭計多端,較不具威脅的方式攻擊,所以我們必須額外的謹慎小心,看下去…

我住在VA的Alexandria,但我在LA的Lafayette工作時,我通常和朋友住在一起,就如你們所知道的,從America's Most Wanted這個電視節目,也是新聞媒體中得知,有一個連續殺人犯在Lafayette地區,我只是想讓你們知道關於幾個星期前在我身上發生的事件,可能是會致命的。

起初我沒有報警或對任何人說,因為我不瞭解這個遭遇是多麼嚴重,但自從我在監獄工作後,告訴一些朋友這件事,那是在不久前我走進Internal Affairs(內務部或政風單位)告訴他們我的故事。大約是早上5點15分,在LA的Opelousas,我待在我朋友那然後前往工作的路上,我在Exxon/Blimpie Pie station停下來加油,我加了十元的油和買一瓶健怡可樂,我帶了兩張5元鈔票和一張1元鈔票進店裡(剛好夠買我的東西)。

當我離開商店,一個男人從商店的後方(陰暗處)接近我的貨車,他看起來是個容易親近的人(髮型整齊,鬍子刮得很乾淨,穿著得體之類),他走近我的車窗敲了敲,由於我很偏執的『總是在尋找強暴者和殺人犯』,我並沒有打開車窗。

我問他有什麼事,他在我的車窗舉起5元鈔票說:『你掉了這個』,由於我知道我帶了多少錢進入商店,我知道我沒有掉錢,當我告訴他那不是我的,他開始敲打車窗車門,大聲對我吼叫要打開門,並堅持我掉了錢!在那個時候,我盡我所能的快速開車離開。

再告訴Internal Affairs部門描述我看到的這個男人,從沉著有禮轉變成憤怒發狂的行為之後…他們表示我很有可能遇上連續殺人犯,至今、仍然不清楚他如何成功的接近被害者,卻沒有強行進入被害者的房子、車子等的證據。事實上,他曾在白天犯案,當女性的警覺性較低時,那表示他相當的大膽。

所以想想看…有什麼比還某個人所掉的錢更友善???有多少次你會打開車窗(或車門)拿你的錢說謝謝...若一個人是如此友善會還你東西,那他就不會是個威脅...他會嗎???

請謹慎小心!這或許不是連續殺人犯...但任何人因某人不接受他的錢而發怒是不會有多高尚的意圖,而注意到,最重要的事是他的反應不是我所預期的!令人非常驚嚇!誰知道如果我開門會發生什麼事,我想到都會發抖!

轉寄給每個你認識的人...或許他們可以和我一樣幸運!

註:女士們,請轉寄這封信給你所認識的每一個人,既使這個男人不是連續殺犯,他看起來人很好,似乎有禮貌,表面上他會做示好的動作,但他不是個好人!!!

男士們,把這封信寄給你生活中的女性,你今天所做的行為很重要,你會因為它而改變你生命中的一天,讓它往好的那一面,請轉寄給每一個你認為會從這封信受惠的人。

weichenjos said...

my mom always tells me"害人之心不可有,防人之心不可無"...的確,對任何事還是要先思考一下...
evonne,別光顧着提醒我們哦,你也要stay safe哦~~不過我一直覺得你很聰明,考慮事情也蠻周全的~~我要好好向你學習~~

最近沒有太累吧??注意安全的同時也要注意身體哦~~~加油~!!

teddy said...

dear e

Happy April Fools' Day ...

Anonymous said...

Evonne```wish you happy~!

Anonymous said...

今天看到一本書
讓我有別的想法
不過無論如何
還是小心為上

你在看誰的部落格?
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010397400

Anonymous said...

所謂'別的想法'
要解釋一下
不是說不必小心
只是網路上的資訊真假
一般人常常難以證實...
甚至維基百科的內容
也不是沒有問題的

不過這篇文章
還是個很好的提醒
要時時提高警覺
不怕一萬
只怕萬一

Anonymous said...

Dear eVonne,thank you for remind us of this problem...all of us female should be cautious about it...

Anonymous said...

(continue...)and i think one of the best way is to improve our awareness of it...sometimes,to be paranoid is a good sense... anyway,be subtle of the circumstance~~take care of yourself ee~~